I have not filled this out b/c I feel silly saying good things about ourselves. Others seem to frequently say we are a good-looking couple so I will leave it at that for now. We have watched the majority of our friends cheat on each other with the eventual outcome of separating/getting a divorce. While I am sure no one would understand our secret life we are often asked how we keep our relationship so strong after 25+ years, I think trusting each other enough to enjoy this sort of fun plays a significant role b/c we would never consider cheating on one another among other acts of disrespect. We decided we did not want to be 65 or older and regret not having this experience. We have had only 4 outside people join us in the last 10 years but we have decided to look for someone new if the right situation comes around.

Mi persona ideal: Since I am soon going to be 50 and my husband a couple of years older we would probably not feel comfortable with anyone under 40 but never say never. I will admit we discussed my having a young man who I could hopefully satisfy extremely well. My husband is not into the cuckolding thing but does like to record our fun b/c enjoying ourselves afterward as a couple is huge for us, but is not into the degrading thing. That is not to say we/I do not enjoy talking dirty and various other slutty fun. People who know how to have fun without being rude or mean is surprisingly easy to spot most of the time.