Life is good right now. I'm happy and secure. I'm down to earth, and treat everyone just as I would like to be treated: with kindness and respect. I live life to its fullest. We have only one chance in life, and I'm not letting anything pass me by. Sexually, I am adventurous, but not promiscuous or a professional swinger. I am on this site to find women who share a mutual attraction, share a desire to explore and an acknowledged need for good sex. I am a newly separated, heterosexual, intelligent, attractive, confident, adventurous, open minded, honest, outspoken, playful, affectionate, sensual, polyamorous, squeaky clean, and a disease free Black male. I am romantic, love kissing, touching and being touched. I LOVE FOREPLAY!!!! I revel in taking my time, making love to a woman's body, from head to foot, i.e., gently caressing, stroking, kissing, and licking her body all over. "Making love", encompasses the WHOLE per: body, mind and spirit, and is something that most of us want with those people we develop feelings for. I see myself as a per who is committed to finding a place of sanity with sex, and to freeing hisself to enjoy his sexuality, and to share it in as many ways as may fit for me. Except for homosexuality, I may not always know what fits without trying it on, so I tend to be curious and adventurous ... I like relating to people ... and reveling in how our differences expand our horizons and offer us new ways to be ourselves. I have also found, that on occasion, I have a need for recreational sex. It is as it sounds, non-emotional, and simply taking care of human needs, just like satisying the need for sleep, hunger, thirst, etc.. Sex, without any emotional commitment connected to it, can be very exciting for me. I believe that every woman is unique: that each achieves satisfaction in a different way, and that men must adapt to the method that pleases her. I thoroughly revel in taking the journey to accomplish that goal. I firmly believe that flirting is a form of foreplay, and that the best sex is primarily mental, and begins by providing an environment in which the woman can relax, feel comfortable, safe, desired, and uninhibited. I do NOT believe that great sex is hammering away at a woman for an hour, and then dozing off. I am open to trying anything I think will enhance the moment. I have an athletic body but I am by no means excessively muscular. I am 100% straight, and have absolutely no interest in any type of bi-sexual experience with another man. I am, however, very comfortable being in close proximity to another man as we please our partner/s. Incidental contact will not freak me out. I thoroughly enjoy watching my partner give and receive pleasure, and being watched as well. I enjoy anal play so long as my female partner is aroused by it. I also enjoy slapping her behind, and lightly pulling her hair. Once again, in conclusion: I LOVE FOREPLAY, and need to MAKE LOVE, NOT FUCK; I WILL NOT PLAY WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE INFECTED WITH COMMUNICABLE DISEASES; I AM SQUEAKY CLEAN, AND EXPECT THOSE WHO I RELATE TO PHYSICALLY, TO BE AS WELL; I AM 100% HETEROSEXUAL!! I need/want to make contact with the female in order to have GREAT SEX. No, I am not looking, nor want to ruin another's relationship, but I do need time, chemistry, and an exchange of passion. I stress this because I receive alot of responses from the male members of couples, who want to watch me to pound their women. That is not where I am at this time in my life. I am not into ren, "potty" games, animals, pain, humiliation, or any form of degradation. I am not a hardcore swinger, just a per who wants to realize his fantasies and have mind blowing sex. I am looking for real people, into real meetings, desiring real sexual encounters.

Mi persona ideal: I WILL ONLY INTERACT SEXUALLY WITH THOSE WHO ARE CERTIFIABLY DISEASE FREE, AND HAVE EXCELLENT HYGENIC PRACTICES!!!

I seek playful, non-pushy people in possession of a little class, some culture, and "Understated Elegance". I am not into cybersex, telephone sex, exchanging pictures, chatting or long email exchanges. I am looking to meet real people, who desire real meetings, to determine if we might have chemistry together. I am looking for someone who I can go out with occasionally; someone I play with, and can play with me; someone who enjoys trying new things and going to new places, and possibly vacationing together in tropical destinations; someone who feels that life is about experiencing and learning; someone who has passion for their life, and the people in it, and is willing to experiment in life, and in relationships. I am looking for those intelligent, attractive, uninhibited, sexy, sensual, open, honest, non-game playing, drama, and disease free women, and couples, who also happen to be psychologically, emotionally, and physically stable, and healthy. Because I like to make love, and passion is involved, it is important that interested couples have a VERY strong stable relationship together, and understand that it is not my goal to come between them. Just add, hopefully, to their eroticism. I want to interact with the aforementioned, who are serious about giving and receiving pleasure, and want to pursue that prospect with me.

I enjoy women who are passionate, vocal, and appreciative in bed. I can't stand silent,
unresponsive lovers!

In a nutshell, I prefer people like me--not "professional swingers". just sexually average folks with a love of good sex. Non-negotiable: must love to make love; please be responsible and honest; no STD's or heavy drinking/drugs. Open to anything from a brief adventure to an ongoing fling, and in time, possibly a LTR.

I am recently separated. So I am participating as a single male.

Cuenta una de tus fantasías sexuales favoritas. No te reprimas.:
I like the idea of public sex, the thrill, intensity of the moment...Anything involving that theme.

¿Con qué sitio fantaseas para tener un encuentro sexual?:
El probador de ropa en una tienda

¿Qué tipo de actividades sexuales te calientan?:
Dar sexo oral, Recibir sexo oral, Sexo anal, Juguetes (vibradores/dildos/etc.), Beso negro, Bondage ligero, Cera de velas, Azotes, Juego de roles, Tríos, Masturbaición mutua, Filmar "Películas" caseras, Participar en fotografía erótica, Voyeurismo, Vendar los ojos, Being watched.

¿Has tenido cibersexo alguna vez?:
Lo he intentado pero no es lo mismo.

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